We’ve all been guilty of this one… Most men see a beautiful woman and think “I want THAT” (objectifying her). They want to go talk to her with a certain purpose in mind: to get her number, to look cool in front of their friends, to take her home,… Whatever.
When they then approach a woman, they’re totally invested in the outcome they put for themselves. They’re attached to it and do whatever it takes to “close the deal”.
Most men act very needy around women because of this. They want it too much and because of that an alarm goes off in the woman’s mind… telling her to run…
It’s important to stop idealizing women before you know them and stop attaching an outcome to your interactions.
3. They are in “hunt mode”
Lots of men go out with the sole purpose of hunting for women.. They go out in “hunt mode” as I call it sometimes…
For example, I used to go to clubs and parties in the weekend with the sole purpose of meeting women, not to enjoy myself…
But you’re sabotaging yourself because women hate that vibe from men… Going out to meet women is great… You’re being assertive, going for what you want. But you become much more attractive if you’re having fun at the same time…
This really is one of the most common reasons men are getting rejected by a woman, especially if you add alcohol into the mix!
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